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karwa chauth.....

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karwa chauth ka vrat kaartik maas ki shukla paksha ki chaturthi tihi ko manaya jaata hai,yeh vrat pati ki lambi aayu aur akhand saubhagya ke liy kiya jaata hai. Iss parv ko hum karak chaturthi ke naam se v jaante hai.yah parv bharat mein punjab,hariyana,u.p,m.p,rajasthan mein vishesh rup se manaya jaata hai. 4 baje se pahle suhagin aurtein sargi khaati hai uske baad subah uthke sabse pahle naha dho ke vrat karne ka sankalp karna chahiy. Suhaginein din bhar nirjala vrat karti hai aur shaam ko16 shringaar karke mata parwati,shankar bhagwan aur ganesh g ki puja karti hai. katha sunti hai  karwa chauth ka. Suhagin aurtein besabri se chaand ka wait karti hai.  Chaand nikalne ke baad chandradev ko arghya deti hai unki puja karti hai.  Apne pati ki aarti karti hai. Chalni se unka chehra dekhne ke baad pati ko pranam karti hai. Pati apni patni ko paani pilakar uska vrat kholte hai. Pati apni ke liy kuch gift v dete hai. Vrat kholne ke baad ghar ke sabhi bade bujurgo ka aashirwad ...

khush rahne ke liy kuch aasan se tips

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                                              khush rahne ke liy sabse pehla tarika hai yoga. Hume apne aap ko kabhi v kisi se kam nahi samajhana chaahiy kyunki hum kabhi kisi se kam nahi hote sirf self confidence ki kami hoti hai. Hume humesha present mein jina chaahiy na ki past mein aksar hum past ya future me jite hai present me hokar v hum present mein nahi hote. Hume purani baato ko bhul jaana chaahiy agar hum aisa nahi karenge toh sirf dusre ko koshte hi rahenge unki galtiyon ke liy aur hum dukhi hote rahenge. Kisi ki v baaton ko dil pe nahi lagana chaahiy agar hum aisa karenge toh khush rahne ke bajaay dukhi hi rahenge. Humesha apne baare mein socho ki apna vikaash kaise hoga aur kaise khush raha ja sakta hai,dusro ke maamle ya dusro ke baare mein jyaada na soche kyunki aajkal log dusro ki baatein nahi sunte hai apni man ki hi karte hain isiliy dusro ke piche apna t...

Rakshabandhan kyun manate hai....

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RAKSHBANDHAN bhaai behan ka festival hai jo ki pyaar aur raksha ka pratik hai,iss festival ko bahut hi khushi aur utsaah se manaya jaata hai.RAKHI  ka festival shraavan maas ki purnima ke din manaya jaata hai. RAKSHABANDHAN  ke din bahane bhaai ke maathe pe kumkum ka tilak lagati hai uske baad kalaai par raksha ka dhaaga ke rup me raakhi baandhati hai,aarti dikhaati hai,mithai khilaati hai aur bhaai paise ya gift dete hai iss tarah raakhi ka festival manaya jaata hai aur bahne bhaai ke liy pray karti hai. Rakhi manane ke ke piche ki story R aakhi ki story hume mahabharat se milti hai jo krishna aur draupadi ki hai.ek baar ki baat hai jab yudhisthir indraprasth mein rajshuya yagya kar rahe the toh waha sabha mein shishupal v maujud the shisupaal ne waha shree krishna ka apmaan kiya toh shree krishna ne uska vadh kar diya ye kah kar ki ab tumhara paap ka ghada bhar gay ab tumhe jaana hoga,issi dauran unki choti ungli kat jaati toh draupadi ne apna shaari ...

DEPRESSION KO DUR KARNE KEkuch aasaan se UPAaY

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DEPRESSION KO DUR KARNE ke LIY HUME KHAALI SAMAY MEIN SONG SUNANA CHAHIY,DANCE  KARNA CHAHIY,MOVIE DEKHNI CHAHIY. YOGA SABSE BEST TARIKA HAI DEPRESSION KO DUR KARNE KA. TIME MILE TOH MOVIE DEKHNE DOSTON KE SAATH BAAHAR JARUR JAAY . OUTING V JARUR KARIY JAB TIME MILE. SONG V GUNGUNANA CHAAHIY JAB TIME MILE,APNE AAP KO APNE MAN KO KABHI KHAALI MAT CHORIY KI WOH DEPRESSION PAIDA KAR SAKE,HUMESHA APNE AAP KO BUSY RAKHIY. 8 GHANTE KI NIND PURI  LE. LIKHNA CHAAHIY JO APKO ACHA LAGTA HAI US TOPIC PE LIKHIY YA DRAWING KARIY JISME AAPKO INTREST HAI,LIKHANE SE DEPRESSION DUR HOTA HAI,EK TARAH SE AAP APNE MAN KI BAAT KALAM KE THROUGH BAAHAR NIKALTE HO. NEGATIVE THOUGHT KO APNE ANDAR KABHI MAT AANE DIJIY . PAST KI BAATON KO V NAHI SOCHTE REHNA JISSE KI HUMARE CHEHRE PE UDAASI AAY. KHUD KO KABHI AKELA MAT KARIY JITNA HO SAKE LOGO KE SATH RAHIY UNSE BAATEIN KARIY,HANSIYE JOR JOR SE AURO KO BHI HANSAAIYE. APNE AAP KO KABHI V KISI SE KAM MAT SAMAJHIY,AGAR AAP...

Pati ko khush karne ke kuch aasaan tarike

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PATI KO KHUSH RAKHNE KE LIY UNKI PASAND NA PASAND KA KHAYAL RAKHNA CHAAHIY woh kahte hai na pati ke dil ka raasta pet se hokar gujarta hai ye sahi baat hai ye mine v dekha hai jab main unke liy unke pasand ka khaana banati hun toh unhe bahut acha lagta hai aur woh bahut khush hote hai. MAKEUP KARNA  hume kabhi nahi chorni chahiy kyunki patiyon ko rijhaane ke liy khoobsurat dikhana jaruri hai.hume kabhi v ye nahin sochna chaahiy ki ab toh humari umar dhal rahi hai kya karna hai saj dhaj ke.Jab v pati office se ghar aay toh humesha saj ke unke saamne aay isse aap ki image achi banegi kyunki jab hum v baahar se aate hai aur patiyon ke baal bigde hue hote hai toh achi feeling nahi aati hai mujhe.Aap chaaho toh unke pasand ke kapde v pahen sakti hai.  BEWAJAH PATI PAR SAK NA KARE isse rishte mein khatas aati hai aur aap khud v depressed rah sakte ho. BEWAJAH KISI BHI BAAT PE PATI SE BEHAS NA KARE jiski aapko knowledge na ho isse aapki chavi v kharab hogi aur mood v. PATI K...

NAARI....

Maa ke kokh se janmi par amant kisi aur ki, Zindagi meri hak kisi aur ka, sharir meri thi hak pati ka tha, Naam toh mera tha lekin  surname pati ka , Maang meri thi sindoor pati  ke nam ka, Gala mera Mangalsutra  pati ke naam ka, Jitiya mere gale me tha lekin woh v bacho ke naam ka, Vrat meri pooja pati aur bacho ke naam ki, kokh meri thi lekin vansh khaandaan ka tha, zindagi toh meri thi lekin uspe haq tha bachcho ka, Maa ke kokh se jab baahar aayi toh laga ki duniya toh bahut khubsorat hai, lekin kaha pata tha zindagi toh meri hogi lekin hak kisi aur ka hoga, maa ke kokh se baahar aane ka decision v kisi aur ka tha. Jab v apne liy jina chaaha toh maa baap ne kaha amanat ho kisi aur ki, Jab v apne liy jina chaaha toh pati ne kaha ijjat ho tum meri mere hissab se jiyo, Jab v apne liy jina chaaha toh sabne kaha bacho ko kaun dekhega, Jab v apne liy jina chaaha toh bachcho ne kaha ab rahne do, Jab  apne liy jina chaaha toh ya...